You Can Pretend to Care, but You Can’t Pretend to Show Up: An Advent Message

Hard times are a drag, but they do clarify who your people are. If you’ve ever experienced a crisis, you’ve probably learned that some people show up on your doorstep while others you thought you could count on are glaringly absent. Ask anyone who has experienced a long season of struggle, and they’ll quickly tell […]

Taking Thanksgiving to the Next Level

When I was a child, I had asthma. Typically, it landed me in the hospital a couple of times each year. It’s been four decades, but I still remember those hospitalizations. Day after day of breathing treatments, blood draws from my wrist (big ouch), and sitting quietly in an oxygenated tent until my airway opened […]

Staying Focused in a Culture of Distraction

Recently I was waiting in line in a crowded coffee shop when something felt amiss. Despite a large number of people in the building, the shop was almost silent, with the exception of the baristas taking orders behind the counter. I looked around and realized that nearly everyone was staring at a screen. Even the […]

The Case for the Psalms of Lament

In modern culture, there’s a high premium placed upon “looking on the bright side.” For the most part, people are uncomfortable with open expressions of grief, uncertainty, and sadness. Quite frankly, it makes us nervous. We aren’t keen on weakness or vulnerability. And to be fair, maintaining a positive attitude is important. Living with hopeful […]